Join Gino Barbaro and Dr. Mike Fabarez as they delve into the importance of raising strong, principled men in today’s society in this eye-opening episode. Mike, a seasoned pastor and author of “Raising Men Not Boys,” shares his profound insights on strength beyond physicality, emphasizing on character, conviction, and integrity. They address the dangerous “herd mentality” often seen today and stress the importance of teaching children to question and think critically. Mike and Gino also discuss the impact of community on our moral development and outlook on life.
In the latter part of their discussion, Mike introduces his upcoming book on envy and its often underestimated influence on societal chaos, relationships, and business. He argues that envy is an internal conflict that has extensive external repercussions that need addressing. Don’t miss out on this enlightening conversation on character building, critical thinking, and the power of envy.
Highlights:
00:00 – Intro
01:50 – What Inspired Dr. Mike Fabarez to Write the Book “Raising Men, Not Boys”
05:25 – What Aspects of Raising Children did Dr. Mike Fabarez get Right?
06:31 – What is God’s Design for Grown Men?
10:09 – What is Dr. Mike Fabarez’s Definition of “The Modern Challenge”
14:24 – How We Lead Our Children Through Example
17:49 – What Mistakes Did Mike Fabarez Make?
20:20 – How Candid Should Families Be?
23:37 – Divorce Rates and Stress on Children
26:10 – The Troubling Direction Society is Headed for Marriage and Moral Values.
32:52 – What is in Dr. Mike’s Future?
35:58 – The Importance of Community When Raising Children.
37:36 – Contact Dr. Mike Fabarez
Parenting boys in today’s world presents unique challenges, but it’s crucial to embrace their distinct characteristics and guide them toward becoming responsible, purpose-driven men. Here are some valuable tips:
- Celebrate Their Energy: Understand that boys naturally have high energy levels and a need for physical activity. Encourage them to play, explore, and engage in activities that allow them to release their energy constructively.
- Sweat Every Day: Recognize the importance of physical activity for boys. Encourage them to sweat every day through sports, outdoor play, or other physical pursuits. This not only promotes physical health but also helps channel their energy positively.
- Embrace Distinctions: Acknowledge and celebrate the differences between boys and girls. Boys may exhibit more adventurous or assertive behaviors, and it’s crucial to recognize and appreciate their unique qualities without trying to fit them into predefined gender roles.
- Teach Leadership and Responsibility: Instill a sense of leadership and responsibility in boys. Teach them the importance of taking care of others, making good decisions, and being accountable for their actions. Help them understand that true leadership involves service to others.
- Spiritual Growth: Foster spiritual growth by introducing boys to the concept of a higher purpose. Encourage them to seek a connection with something greater than themselves, promoting values such as kindness, compassion, and empathy.
By embracing these principles, parents can guide their boys toward becoming men of purpose, service, and positive influence in society.
Guest Site:
https://raisingmennotboys.com
https://pastormike.com
Mike’s Book:
https://amzn.to/3Or85NJ
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